Well, I don't style it. I'm transitioning and at 18 while still in high school, it's hard to find something that I won't be self conscious about so I just wash my hair, deep condition it and pull it back with a hair tie.
Try doing a two strand twist set on your hair. you can find an eco styler gel and also coconut oil from your local wal mart and mix it together and do a two strand twist or single twist.
I don’t think black women are too hair obsessed to workout, however, we are very style conscious. We understand that we are judged from the door and our